My Problem

Dear Agony Aunt,

My name is Elaisa and I'm 14 years old.
I have a very big problem:
My parents are very strict and unfair. They treat me like a little child and I haven't any privacy.
I'm not allowed to go out with my friends because my parents think that I will drink alcohol and smoke. And I'm also not allowed to have a boyfriend. They said that I'm too young for this. But I'm think that people in my age can decide on their own hand what's the best for themselves.
I wanted to talk about this with my parents, but they didn't listen to me.
And when I wanted to surf in the internet, my mother stand always behind me and looks what I do. That's stupid because when I want to chat with my friends in the msn-chat or icq she could always see what I write to my friends.
What should I do? Please help me, I'm really desperate!
Please write back as soon as possible!

Yours, Elaisa

School Uniforms

School Uniforms

On the one hand I think school uniforms are good, because it showes that the pupils who wear the uniform belong to a community.
The only important thing is that there's no bullying because of the clothes. When a person doesn't wear designer clothes and shoes, then the other pupils who wear fashionable clothes mob him/her. That won't happen, when everybody wears a uniform.
Laura, a class mate, said when the uniforms are too expensive, some pupils cannot afford the clothes. But I think, when the headmaster of the school wants a uniform, then he search for some clothes which are not so expensive.

But on the other hand, I admid that it is boring, when everybody wears the same clothes. And when same pupils don't want to wear the uniform, they will probably begin rebel.